Why has ChatGPT become so preachy?

There was a time when one of my colleagues recommended me Gemini and I told him that I am sticking to ChatGPT. But those days have long gone. ChatGPT is no longer my default. It has become so preachy and overtly cautious. The therapist mode is ON all the freaking time. Sometimes, I just want to get some facts and that's it. I do not want a lecture on who I am and who I am not! Also, the overuse of emojis is annoying.