Why is ChatGPT getting to be dismissive and rude

So I’ve been using ChatGPT for about a year now. on and off with premium, mostly when I actually need it. Over the past couple of months though, I’ve noticed a shift in how it responds. It feels a lot dismissive, almost like it’s trying to “reality check” me even when I didn’t ask for that. Sometimes it’ll start responses with things like “I’m gonna be real with you,” and then go on to shut down what I’m saying or make me feel kind of dumb. The main issue is that it feels like it’s going beyond what I actually asked.