Show HN: I built a secure AI mediator to handle my own marital conflicts

Hi HN, I’m Ali. I built Ashti because my wife and I needed a better way to de-escalate emotional conflicts, and pasting our sensitive arguments into a standard ChatGPT window felt like a massive privacy violation. Standard LLMs are terrible at the "messy middle" of relationships, and the current AI mediation tools on the market are built for legal arbitration, not empathy. I wanted a tool for "Pre-Conversation Intelligence" - something to lower the temperature before the actual conversation happens.