Hidden Failure Modes of Gradient Modification under Adam in Continual Learning, and Adaptive Decoupled Moment Routing as a Repair

ArXi:2604.22407v1 Announce Type: cross Many continual-learning methods modify gradients upstream (e.g., projection, penalty rescaling, replay mixing) while treating Adam as a neutral backend. We show this composition has a hidden failure mode. In a high-overlap, non-adaptive 8-domain continual LM, all shared-routing projection baselines collapse close to vanilla forgetting (12.5--12.8 vs. 13.2). A 0.5% replay buffer is the strongest shared alternative but still reaches 11.6, while fixed-strength decoupling falls below vanilla at 14.1.